How we got here
Our Story
- Jan 2023Networked
- Mar 2023Dating
- Jun 2024
Adopted by Bobby - Sep 2025Moved in together
- Jan 2026Engaged
- Apr 2027Married
April 23, 2027
The Day
It's a Friday. Put in for the day off now - we need your full attention.
3:00 in the afternoon
Welcome
Arrive at the Point, grab a glass of something sparkly, and enjoy the view and the good company.
Ceremony
We say “I do”
Outdoors at the edge of the lake, with the Chicago skyline behind us.
Golden hour
Cocktails on the patio
Drinks and hors d'oeuvres on the patio while we sneak off for a few photos.
Evening
Dinner & toasts
Buffet dinner in the historic field house. Please go back for seconds.
Until 10
Dancing
Until the park kicks us out at 10. Shoes optional, dancing is not.
Exact timings will be on this page as the day approaches.
Where
Promontory Point
A peninsula on Lake Michigan
A 1930s park built out into Lake Michigan, with the Chicago skyline across the water. The ceremony and reception are both here, so once you arrive, you're set for the evening.
5491 S. DuSable Lake Shore DriveChicago, IL 60615
Getting there15 minutes from the Loop. Rideshare drops at 55th Street; the underpass walk takes 5 minutes.
ParkingLot at 55th Street (pay-to-park). A golf cart will shuttle anyone who'd rather ride than walk.
DressIt's April on the lake - bring a layer for the evening breeze.
Promontory Point
5491 S Shore Dr
Chicago, IL 60615
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Questions
When should I RSVP?
Ideally, the moment you finish reading this sentence. Search your name below and your whole crew appears together. And if your plans change later, tell us ASAP - we would rather redo the seating chart than pay for a ghost's dinner.
Can I bring a guest?
Search your name below - everyone your invitation covers shows up together. If someone you love is missing from the list, text us and plead your case.
Where do I park?
The 55th Street lot is closest. From there it's a short walk through the underpass, or flag down our golf cart, which will be running all evening. Yes, there will be a golf cart. We're excited about it too.
Indoors or outdoors?
Ceremony outdoors on the lakefront, dinner and dancing inside the historic field house. April by the lake has opinions - bring a layer.
What should I wear?
We're currently planning on formal attire, with full details to follow closer to the wedding. Two colors are off the table: white and red. Wear either and the bridesmaids will attack. This is not a joke. We cannot guarantee your safety.
Are kids invited?
We love your kids, but we're keeping the evening adults only. Think of it as a night off: dress up, stay late, and let the babysitter handle bedtime.
Any wedding rules I should know about?
The bride is Ukrainian, so a strict set of traditions will be enforced. These include, but are not limited to: loud partying, potential fights, and at least one embarrassing moment per guest. Participation is mandatory.
We hope you'll join us
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